Family law mediation is a process in which a neutral third party, called a mediator, assists the parties in reaching a resolution outside of court by way of facilitating an agreement between the parties involved. Agreements made in mediation are not binding unless the parties take the terms of the mediated agreement and place them in a filed court order or executed family agreement (like a separation agreement).

A mediator can help the parties to come to agreements, narrow down issues, and reduce tensions in a collaborative method that mediates negotiations between the parties.

In contrast, family law arbitration is a process in which a neutral third party, called an arbitrator, is appointed to make a binding decision regarding a family law dispute. The process is like a court proceeding, but it is less formal and more flexible. The parties present their evidence and arguments to the arbitrator, who then makes a decision that is final and binding.

By working with a neutral third-party mediator or arbitrator, parties can resolve their disputes in a private and confidential setting, without the need for a public court hearing. Overall, mediation and arbitration can provide a more peaceful and efficient paths to resolution for separating parties.

In either mediation or arbitration, parties can attend the sessions with their respective legal counsel so they may receive legal advice on the spot to help them make informed choices about their matter.